A new study by Mwelekeo Insights has revealed that most Kenyan men still support the bride price tradition. However, many of them also believe it should change to reflect modern realities. The nationwide survey, which included over 15,000 men aged 18 to 45, found that 53 per cent support bride price while 47 per cent oppose it.
Interestingly, although the tradition remains popular, many men are calling for reforms. For instance, 65 per cent of respondents said that the bride price should be shared between the man and the woman. In their view, this would make it fairer and more manageable for couples.
Moreover, 83 per cent supported the idea of paying the bride price gradually over time. They argued that this approach would ease the financial pressure often linked to marriage, especially for younger men who may still be building their careers.
Mwelekeo Insights finding on gradual payment of bride price. Photo: Mwelekeo Insights Source: mwelekeo.com
Even more surprising, however, was the suggestion that bride price should be a reward rather than a requirement. A large number of men, 89 per cent, said that instead of paying before marriage, the man should offer gifts to his wife’s family based on her good behaviour during the marriage.
Nevertheless, opinions remain divided on whether the practice should continue at all. While 48 per cent of men supported completely abolishing bride price, 52 per cent opposed that idea. While many want change, a small majority still feel the tradition should be preserved.
Furthermore, when asked whether women should pay bride price instead, only 29 per cent of men agreed. The rest rejected the idea, showing that most still believe it is a man’s responsibility.
Mwelekeo Insights finding on bride price being abolished completely. Photo: Mwelekeo Insights Source: mwelekeo.com
The study also revealed major differences based on age, education and location. Specifically, younger men, especially those in urban areas and with higher education, were more likely to oppose bride price. On the other hand, older men and those in rural areas were more likely to support it, seeing it as a sign of respect and cultural identity.
As a result of these findings, Mwelekeo Insights has recommended open discussions in communities where men and women, young and old, can talk about the future of the tradition.
Additionally, they suggested promoting symbolic or voluntary forms of bride price and encouraging religious and cultural leaders to guide modern interpretations.
Overall, the study shows that while bride price remains important to many Kenyan men, there is growing support for changes that reflect fairness, financial reality and gender equality.
